JSFiddle - React, Tailwind, and code Playground

HTML

<select class="a">
    <option value="1">One a</option>
     <option value="2">Two</option>
 </select>
<select class="b">
    <option value="1">One b</option>
     <option value="3">Three</option>
 </select>

JavaScript

(function($){

    $.fn.extend({detachOptions: function(o) {
        var s = this;
        return s.each(function(){
            var d = s.data('selectOptions') || [];
            s.find(o).each(function() {
                d.push($(this).detach());
            });
            s.data('selectOptions', d);
        });
    }, attachOptions: function(o) {
        var s = this;
        return s.each(function(){
            var d = s.data('selectOptions') || [];
            for (var i in d) {
                if (d[i].is(o)) {
                    s.append(d[i]);
                    console.log(d[i]);
                    // TODO: remove option from data array
                }
            }
        });
    }});    
    
})(jQuery);

// example
$('select').detachOptions('[value=1]');
$('.b').attachOptions('[value=1]');